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Amen! I totally can relate to this article. Being single is not something to be ashamed of, depressed over and needing of sympathy. Its actually a great time to explore oneself and come to terms with one’s own sense of independance. Its very easy to fall into the trap that you need to be “with someone” to be someone. I’ve been there, and it cost me my health and sense of Self.
I agree one soul mate in this one lifetime is pure B . S. We come into alignment with those we resonate with and then we may find that our energetic vibe changes and then comes the dissolution of the relationship. Not the end of the world at all. Its better to be walking on your path alone, than in bad company ;)
I think we need to transcend the archaic cultural scripts that enforce an arbitrary timeline on love and relationships. There is no time when you are “supposed” to have found a partner, and lasting forever should not be a mandatory part of a successful relationship. People will likely come in go in our lives, as will partners, and that is not a bad thing.
Also, you are not more successful at relationships just because you happen to be in one. A relationship should not even be the goal, but rather the pursuit of what you are passionate about, and if someone can help you do that through partnering, great, if not, so what? There will always be friends and random sex partners to fulfill the other needs.